Relationship Quiz: Is this the Right Person?
By Fred Lybrand, author of Glaen
Mark your answers from 1 to 10, with 1 being “No Way” and 10 being “I Think So”
- I can easily picture being with this person 10 years from now.
- We agree on everything that is really important to me.
- We finally solve our conflicts, even if it takes a while.
- If this person stays just the same forever, I’ll be pretty happy.
- I feel good chemistry with this person at least once a week.
- Our closest friends have good relationships.
- I believe growing a soul mate is as right as finding a soul mate.
- We always give each other the freedom to say “No” without getting in trouble.
- I’ve read a book or listened to a talk to help my relating to others within the past year.
- I am sure I would not be the one to call it quits in this relationship.
Add up you points and consider this common sense scale:
90-100 Fantasy Land (please re-take the Quiz with a little less pretending)
75-90 You are as close to a sure bet as it gets in a world without guarantees
55-75 You have a good relationship that would likely blossom with a little work
40-55 You probably need to find some outside help from some wise friends or mentors
25-40 The relationship needs professional help (pastor, counselor, etc.)
<25 The relationship has almost no chance until you change your mind
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